Quote: This month we have ML six times (I think that is pretty good! ). I still want better though.
Wow, I think that is FANTASTIC! That's more times than W and I have managed all year so far. Keep it up, and I'm wowed at the fact that you want better.
Quote: My H is reluctant to read books like this. But I'm hearing that it is worthwhile even if only read by one of the persons in the marriage. Correct?
Absolutely no doubt in my mind. I do think it will help if both partners read it, and I intend to invite W to read it, but the way I'm going to phrase that invitation is something like "You know I've been reading this book practically non-stop. I want to let you know that reading it has been an earth-shaking experience for me, and I want to share that with you, because I love you and I want our marriage to be the best it can be. This book has given me a look at how things CAN be, and I very much WANT us to get there. Based on what I've read here, I'm going to be going through some changes on a personal level, and if you will read this book with me, it will give you a framework for understanding some of the changes that will be happening to me and to our relationship. You don't have to read it, but I'd very much like you to."
Quote: I am constantly judging my worth as to how others view me. Will this book really help me with that??
That is EXACTLY what this book is all about. Good luck, and I'll let you know how things go for me as well...
