Now I come and go as I please, interact a lot more with my friends,, and have injected a bit of myatery into the mix. I get texts all the time from subordinates as friends at work, so I’m on the phone quite a bit when I’m home. Lately she’s been asking who I’m texting or trying to look over y shoulder... not sure what to make of any of this or if I even should.
There is a reason to be mysterious. Women are drawn to it........especially a wife!
Your W and the OM may have had a lover's spat. Who knows. You are doing something right, and obviously, she appears interested. Continue doing exactly what you've reported.
Great job!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!