Thanks for the advice. Actually S14 and myself have been great since the talk. W started complaining to my lawyer about it, but she should be relieved considering that I didn't tell S14 90% of the trifiling things she has been up to. I simply let him know why I was getting this divorce and that unlike his mother and her family this was a big deal.
Now I did have my concerns about marrying W after meeting her family. But she was very different at the time and talked bad about their behavior. Hell, she talked bad about them folks for years. And now suddenly she wants to be like her mother and the very women she personally dogged. So this came out if nowhere for me. Only thing I can do now is move on.
Now moving on is going to be difficult with W trying to continue with family activities. For example, I had S14 this past week and normally on the first Saturday in December the city has a 24 hour even that we always attend as a family. W asked if I was taking S14 this year and I said yes. And as usual I would invite a few of his friends to come along with us. Nowhere in the conversation was an invite to W.
So Friday W goes to S14 school for lunch and talks to his friends and somehow weasels her way into picking up some children to attend. So Saturday I was stuck with and MIL who she invited along. They tool a couple of photos to show slight interaction, then wondered off to the do adult things at the event, while I was with the boys. Every now and W would pop up for a photo OP. I wanted to go off on her and tell her to go away. But I had to stay cool, smile and be cordial for the children.
