Hey Art; thanks for chiming in - I really appreciate your thoughts. I do agree...I go fro really understanding and developing great DB'ing habits...then I do get sucked into the fear of WW being mad at me, guilt-ing me, etc.

When she says papers, she is meaning dissolution papers. We have no children and no shared assets at the moment. So instead of doing a D, we will do a dissolution.

The unfortunate thing is, I did get sucked into a cycle here as we are meeting up on Thursday night. Now I know most of you will have negative thoughts/comments about me getting sucked into a R talk and meeting her (knowing she will have papers there); but it is happening.

So I ask you all, please give me some thoughts or words of advise for me because I am actually meeting up with her. Without expectations, what are some plans of attack here?

M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1