BTW. Here's a choice that I just thought of that will illustrate a "differentiated" mind....

Emotionally Fused : "I choose not to fart in front of my W because my W would think I was gross"
Differentiated: "I choose not to fart in front of my W because I have integrity and pride".

Not sure what made me think of this...maybe my lunch from Taco Bell.

Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright