and again, he is is looking for the magic bullet.......
Ouch... and a somewhat fair assessment... knew it was a fantasy at best...
and didn't thank you for telling me not to send that text the other day... I didn't.
I am also working on LRT to cut my losses... She moved to Basement of own free will 2 nights back... she said very little last night... I was actually scarce on words didn't greet her when she got home, or ask about day or her after work activities. Only spoke when spoken to other than to say good night. One thing that she did say last night is she doesn't know if/when she'll move back into bedroom... I said at the time I didn't push you out or force you to go down there (which in retrospect looked weak). She said she slept better... I actually did as well got first 2 good nights sleep in several months...
Think if/when it comes up again that I'm going to tell her I'd like her to stay down there.
Thinking of asking her to also take clothes and toiletries down there as well.
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after