its true probably more don't return than do sometimes the LBS is done by the time the MLCer decides he wants another try but look at all the successful LBS here on this board that work through the crises stand for a time change grow heal and blossom Many have created new lives, new partners and have accepted the path
If you continue to work on yourself, you will also be successful either way our happiness does not rely on another person doing x or y for the LBS-it just takes time to heal and get to a better place
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow