Any thoughts on this... I had promised her I wouldn't do this as I've already hurt her enough and I know this would hurt her (and by proxy my chances as this would likely drive them closer together given that OM/WW had a firm plan on how they were doing things and OM has shown his commitment by already leaving at this point).
Know she'd get upset as she'd see this as me lying to her... but I never thought telling OM W could possibly have any positive effect on my sitch... until I saw a couple posts in Sandi2's 37 rules forum where another user gave his modifications for this with A... and suggested it was actually a necessary positive thing... Thougths?
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after
