Well at this point she has been out of the house for three days. Pretty good for someone with out friends. She asked about coming back to the house today. Told her only to get more of her clothes but she wasn't staying at the house.
Finally have some semblance of a routine going with the kids. Don't want that messed up and the acting out from them is dying down. BIL still doesn't help enough but I don't need much help.
My GAL activity is now limited to phone calls / text messages and therapy. Rest of my time is spent with the kids. Up side is we have seemed to find almost every family activity there is in southern / central Nevada.
Interesting note since I took over the household chores and primary care provider for my children. House is always clean, homework is always done and they are starting to be more respectful towards me.
Starting to think maybe I don't want to be married and being a single father might be what is best for them.