Would she be able to wipe away my memory of S10 sitting motionless on the sofa, tears slowly dropping down his cheeks, as she tells him we're getting a D?
It's ironic you mention that because I was thinking on my way in this morning how my "old" XW would never in a million years have done anything to hurt our kids, even if it meant living in an absolutely miserable M (which ours wasn't). But this new person she is now didn't seem to care who she hurt in the process. That's the long and the short of it, right? That old person that loved you and that you loved would be worth fighting for, but this new person? Not so much.