Our sex lives suck. They are this way becuase us guys checked our integrity at the door. So now what. I am now making the goal to have a great marriage, and that will include all aspects of marriage, and in particular sex and affection. That is my goal. So what are my "Choices" that will get me there? A great marriage requires that the correct choices be made by two distinct individuals. Tell me, what were the choices the guy in chapter 11 had to make that restored his marriage.
P.S. if divorce was one of those choices, then I pretty well am screwed. What a great father I would be when I tell my 8, 12, and 14 year old boys that I am bailing from the marriage because I want better sex from someone else. Sorry for ruining your lives boys, but Dad needs to make choices that benefit ME sexually! Boy, they will love Dad for that!
