Hello Artista, I was really fascinated to read your comment that you've been lurking here that long, thank you for finally introducing yourself! Do you think these forums influenced your decision to try and make things work?
We rarely get the perspective of a WAS but when we do it's extremely valuable (Sandi has obviously been a huge help here) so it would be great to hear more about what made you decide to leave, and what eventually led you back. Also it would be fantastic to hear your perspective on what your H did after you left that didn't work and did work.