Joseph's giving you some good advice. All the signs you are seeing are great, but like Joseph said, don't have any expectations. It's not unusual for a WAS to start acting nice when you start taking the pressure off. Early on they think they have to be mean to get you to "understand" that they are done. If you start pulling back and giving them time and space then sometimes they think "OK he finally gets it, I don't have to keep being mean anymore." But the fact that she's being nice does NOT mean she's ready to reconcile. Not at all. If she ever gets to that point she will let you know in a very clear way. Don't fall into the trap of assuming she's changed her mind and is just waiting for you to ask her about it, that's what we call a temperature check and it never goes like the WAS hopes. And it can make things worse, because a temperature check is pressure.
