Phew this thread is moving fast. I expect I will order this book but to be honest I am suffering from psychobabble overload at the moment. When I read quotes from it such as "something called the quantum model of sexual response" I start thinking that I'm not as clever as you guys. That is the sort of phrase I just skip over as unintelligible when I am reading and it would never occur to me to post it as a meaningful quote. I guess I see myself as an organic rather than an intellectual being. I feel waves going through me. A wave of love one second, desire the next, frustration, disappointment, regret. All of these are mixed up in there somewhere. Reading a book to make sense of and direct these waves of emotion to me seems similar to playing the guitar from sheet music. The dots on the page do not relate in any way to what your fingers need to do unless you are very proficient at interpreting the code. I can get the idea of doing a 180 but “quantum model of sexual response” – I don’t think so. SD
