Wow, you guys!! This is some thread!!!

.... well, been there, done that. Good luck to all of you - it seems you're going in the right directions.

So here's some reading for you for later on ....

"Hot Monogamy" Patricia Love, m.D. and Jo Robinson
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/0452273668/ref=sib_dp_pt/
103-8008701-2384652#reader-link

"The Mastery of Love" Don Miguel Ruiz
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/1878424424/ref=sib_dp_pt/
103-8008701-2384652#reader-link

"Soul Talk" Nina Atwood
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/140220051X/
qid=1082434106/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-8008701-2384652?v=
glance&s=books

"The Erotica Project" Lillian Ann Slugocki and Erin Cressida Wilson
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1573441163/
qid=1082434222/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-8008701-2384652?v=
glance&s=books

"Expanded Orgasm" Patricia Taylor, Ph.D.
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1570718318/
qid=1082434267/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-8008701-2384652?v=
glance&s=books

"The Essential Tantra" Kenneth Ray Stubbs, Ph.D.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/158542014X/ref=sib_dp_pt/
103-8008701-2384652#reader-link

"Female Ejaculation & the G-Spot" Deborah Sundahl
http://www.amazon.com/gp/reader/089793380X/ref=sib_dp_pt/
103-8008701-2384652#reader-page

"The Big Bang: Nerve's Guide to the New Sexual Universe" The Writers at Nerve.com
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0452284260/
qid=1082434538/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/103-8008701-2384652?v=
glance&s=books

Enjoy!! It's a great, big sexual world out there!!!

love,
Lucy

P.S. - you'll have to copy and paste the links into your browser - I had to put 'returns' in so that they wouldn't be too long for the posting window!!