Is it normal to get to the point where you want nothing to do with the WW? So how do you detach from the anger and resentment?
She said she would help with the chores this weekend. We ended up changing plans on Saturday and doing something together with the kids. That went really well.
The activity with the children went over budget and got told I need to leave once we got home. Been mulling this over. My parents were divorced and miserable. My mother gave up her happiness to be a good parent. My FIL gave up his financial stability to support his children. In both cases they were willing to sacrifice their happiness for other people.
So how come when I am faced with a similar choice I choose to fight? Is it some inherent fault in me?
It is ironic that I can admit I would rather lose everything than give her what she wants. That is completely on me and has nothing to do with her.
At this point I am quite happy acting as a single parent. So another fight begins when and if she comes home tonight. Since I will just tell her to leave again that she isn't welcome in my home anymore.
How did I grow resent someone I love so very much?
