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There is no need to argue. She will want to, she'll try to hook you into all your old behaviors, because that is they guy she knows how to work with, but once she sees you are serious, she will either confront herself or leave.





YES!!! That's IT. It's not a "simple" thing... standing your ground will be the scariest thing you've ever done, in all probability.

I was just about to say something like "Whatever you're comfortable with, HD. Nobody's going to force you into a decision on this. Just because some of us are excited about this stuff doesn't mean it's right. FWIW, you can watch me as I journal about my own progress, so you can see if there's any validity to it." However, Corri, you said it MUCH better...

And... Dave... WooHoo! Glad to hear what your C had to say, and also glad your W is going to read it. May you live in interesting times...


TimV2.0

Me: 53
Her: 56
D26 (at home)
S23 (at home)
S18 (at home)

Formerly Tim47...