Dusty, good to hear from you!

It's great you've come so far and you're starting to see your new life after D. So, you're ready to move on and she suddenly brings up "legal separation". Jeez!

It could be a safety net, it could be her having second thoughts. It's best not to beat yourself up trying to figure it out.

Does the legal separation annoy you, or does it make you hopeful? If it annoys you, then maybe you really are ready to move on with the D. But if it makes you hopeful, then maybe consider the S. This will be a hard one for you to weigh out.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.