What Gordie posted is absolutely spot on. I know that we all tend to compare ourselves to the other person in the beginning...but they are nothing more than weak, insecure people with their own issues looking for someone to rescue them. They are just a band aid to what ails our spouses/companions.
Hold your head up high, back straight because you are nothing like this person. You honor your marriage vows and aren't out there trolling looking for the next person to take care of your or be your sugar daddy until the well of wealth runs dry.
You are far, far better than this woman. You have nothing to be ashamed of, nor hide from the world. Don't allow your fears/obsessions of this woman to take away from the person that you are....you are honest, compassionate and kind. Continue moving forward w/your head held high and your back straight.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
