Unfortunately, looks like we're headed for D. It's been 7+ months and I believe I've made peace with it. Obviously, not what I intended or envisioned when we got together 27 years ago.
I can't look at her in the same glowing light as I used to. Right now, she is not someone I want to be married to. I have owned my contribution to the break down of the marriage. I continue to read self help books so that I don't repeat the same mistakes in future relationships! Of course, I continue to GAL
The advice and the 2x4's on this forum have contributed to my growth and I continue to grow and become the man I want to become.
Sandi, 25years, Another Standing, Kaizen - Thanks for everything...words cannot express my sincere gratitude for the advice given, especially the 2x4's. Those are what contributes the most to growth.
Nothing has been filed yet though we did meet with a mediator last week and I (the one who doesn't want the D) asked the majority of the questions and was the more knowledgeable one.
