She’s messing with you. She wants you on the hook as a firm plan B and your diminishing attachment is screwing that up for her. Think back through your M and your S. Anger and guilt have been what she uses to contro you. This is just more of the same.
Stay the course. Focus on YOU! Nothing you can say or do is going to improve things. Remember that you’re not the cheater. Remember that you’re not the one that wanted out. Remember that you’ve already told her you’d do ANYTHING to make this right. Why are you going to listen to her when she’s pretending that you’re the one who doesn’t want her?
What more proof do you need that you’re being lied to and manipulated?
