Cherrry! Just came on here to see if there are any familiar faces and saw your post. I am shocked that he is thinking of getting married so quickly! He sounds like one of those men who cannot be on there own and need to be worshiped by a woman.
I am so sorry for you and your lovely family but on the other hand do you really want to be with someone like that? I know it's easy or me to say but he really hasn't any respect for you at all considering you take care of his children and his own mother. I would say this new interest is not getting a very honourable man at all.
I don't blame you for spewing at him. There comes a time when we have to say what we feel and your time has come. I am also at that stage where' I don't really care what I say to H. He can go to hell in a hand basket for all I care now!
Hugs to you Cherry. You have been through so much and deserve so much better. (((Cherry))).
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')