25yearsMLC 10 Later I FILE D part 8

[Jim1234]

Don;t be so worried. And don;t rush to fulfill that artificial deadline....... I respect the sentiment.

But don't put so much pressure on sex. Trust me, it'll be fun when it happens.

Lots of wisdom here ^^^^^. I'm glad to hear you have thought things thru about rebounding. I worry less for you now.

I hope you get the job! How exciting! It sure sounds like things are turning around for you!

If you decide you want to just scratch that itch, a few suggestions, which are probably obvious, but you never know...

USE PROTECTION!!!!!!

Do it at his place, so you can leave when you want to.

If he tries to fall asleep afterward, tell him explicitly what you want him to do. Most guys will be delighted, and happy to oblige. Those that do oblige can get another visit days or weeks later, those that don't, don't.

Or don't really let him start until you finish.

Don't spend all night. Cuddle for a while afterward, then tell him you really have to get home. You'll both feel better not waking up next to each other in the morning.

Consider talking to him about your expectations, both immediate, and short term.

USE PROTECTION!!!!

You can meet some stud at a bar and go home with him, or go on a date first so there's at least some connection beforehand. I suggest the date first.

Consider letting him chase you; men like that. But if he isn't, tell him straight up you want to go to his place and get laid.

oh, and USE PROTECTION!!!!

Good luck.