So in a sense, I use this^^ as an example as to what is likely to happen in a true ONS. So why the appeal to me at all? I know the men are older and more experienced, but I'm not sure how big a deal that is now.
Boy, you're making a lot of ASSumptions about that theoretical one night stand.
Now to be fair - I'm not into the one night stand. I like to have some knowledge of the person I'm sleeping with, and at least the sense that there might be a repeat performance.
I've dated men that I knew the relationship couldn't go sny further - either because they were wildly age-inappropriate, or because they were love avoidant, or because (in one case) he told me up front he doesn't "DO" relationships. But that didn't stop us from having lovely, sweet hot and sweaty sex. Affectionate, fun and friendly sex.
Don;t be so worried. And don;t rush to fulfill that artificial deadline. I respect a guy for saying I can wait one more month and then feel like I have the self-respect that I didn't break my vow. That's not how I felt about it after all my ex put me through, but I respect the sentiment.
But don't put so much pressure on sex. Trust me, it'll be fun when it happens.
