Had a question, early on after BD my W would just jump like she was startled every time I enter a room. Almost like she was scared of me, she then started doing this with the kids so much so they started asking me whats wrong with her.
I cant speak for your wife, but mine did some similar things. I cant begin to wonder what is going through their minds. My wife did tell me that she felt i was out of control and was scared to be around me. I do not understand how or why she could get these feelings. I asked if I ever hit her in the past or violent with her, and she said no, so i then said what makes you think i have all of a sudden change and would start that? she didnt answer but the feelings about her being scared didnt change. I just moved on, and thought to myself let her craziness be her problem, as long as it doesnt affect my time with my daughter. I cant control how she acts or thinks.
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
