Drowning in his crisis

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Hi

Alanon is a great support group much of the same teachings as DB

I believe anyone can cross the line at anytime from light drinker to heavy alcoholic drinker
especially when in crises..once the line is crossed it is hard for the drinker to just stop without help..alanon is free for spouses/family of drinkers and very helpful

MLC takes a long time..they are very confused men..change their minds frequently,
They lie a lot, spend a ton and become terrible inconsistent parents

I went to a good L just to get information and it was extremely helpful to know
when I saw my XH was charging like mad..I took my name off all the cards
When I saw my xh was putting our business in debt, I took the business from him and saved it
It is hard because I wanted him back but at the same time I had 2 children at that time and one was 5..I needed to be financially capable of raising them

Put yourself first..It may take him a long while to get help

Hang in there..we have all been there
Usually most LBS do land on there feet and create good lives for themselves
use this time ti work on you..heal and take good care of you and kids
let him go his path and watch while you focus on you-