I suggest you take Sandi's earning very seriously. Being nice and passive will never work. And the WW will not hesitate to manipulate you. My own W tried to clean out the house thinking I was at work. Pulled right up with MIL and SIL. And this was the day after my grandmother passed away. No shame whatsoever. Wanted to take advantage of my vulnerability. The past year of my sitch consisted of always staying ahead of her. Never let your guard down for a moment.
