25yearsMLC 10 Later I FILE D part 8

[25yearsmlc]

Thanks for the update. You sound like you're doing pretty well.

My $.02... It seems like you are taking this thing with M way too seriously. It's great that you get along, but you seem to be moving too fast in every way but sex. I fear you are getting too emotionally wrapped up in him too quickly.

funny you say that b/c I feel the total opposite. Not that I don't care for M or am not fond of him. I am.

But the sex comment was NOT about him, it was based on an old semi joking NYE' resolution to have sex in 2017. Some of the vets here (KML where are you?) may recall it. That was where the "how Stella got her groove back" movie reference was from.

M is not the guy for that ^^type of thing, but the R with him is well managed for me emotionally, at this point.

We do not intend to get intimate until after his D is final. I get it. He gets it. That may change if it drags out.

But I don't have that constraint, which I've been honest about.

I'm available to date other men But since G seems to want it to go to the next level and I feel ambivalent about him physically, even after 3 dates, I think it'd be unkind to keep going out with him.


The other questions I'm asking are mostly provoking discussions, and getting other's input. But thanks.