Even if she paid by cash, there would be a withdrawal record on the account. The money didn't just come out of nowhere.
You're going to laugh, but they're actually doesn't have to be a record. She pays for a lot of things in cash, and doesn't always put her money in the bank. Comes from a blue collar family with a lot of mistrust of the system in Banks and such, Etc. LOL. Sometimes she'll have as much as a couple thousand dollars in cash just laying around that she hasn't deposited or else has cashed out of and carries around. Always has, even though I've tried to break her of that habit. Amongst other things she feels that makes her less likely to run up credit card debt. Also, of course, makes her harder to track, LOL.
Your point, and everyone else's, however, are still very well taken. I shouldn't feel bad about making that inquiry. It's just that given the facts and circumstances, and the current dynamic, I am wondering how productive such an inquiry would be and what it would achieve.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
