Sooo....does this mean my H and I can't have meaningful sex just because we're young?


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Most people never reach their sexual prime, and those who do, don't reach it until their forties, fifties and sixties. Profoundly meaningful sex is determined more by personal maturation than physiological reflex.



I know I'm young and haven't have the experiences most of you have had, but I really don't think being in your sexual prime means you're going to have meaningful sex. While I agree with both sentences, I don't see where the two correlate. I would hate to think that just because I don't have cellulite that my H and I aren't going to have meaningful sex. And if I have to have cellulite for us to have meaningful sex, should I be reading any of this stuff now? Shouldn't I wait til I have cellulite, cause we can't have meaningful sex now anyway?

Don't take any of this the wrong way...I haven't read any of the book and am just reacting to what was posted here. It just doesn't seem right that some guy I don't even know can tell me we're not having 'meaningful sex'. Just because we're young.

I'm not sure what you meant by "youngsters", so this wasn't aimed at you. I just think it would be wrong to say that we won't experience 'meaningful sex' til we're in our "forties, fifties [or] sixties". And that goes for anybody.

I'm definitely interested in everyone's feedback.

><> Young and certainly not having 'meaningless' sex!