Quote: I'm really wanting to convert some of this stuff into "action" ... it seems tricky. I best finish the book too.
Exactly, Dave. Reading this stuff makes me want to be there. If only it were that easy...
The thing I love best about it is its message of hope. That profoundly meaningful sex is a product of years of maturity, experience and connection with an emotionally committed partner. It can't be achieved by youngsters - they're not developmentally ready. I love when he says:
Quote: Most people never reach their sexual prime, and those who do, don't reach it until their forties, fifties and sixties. Profoundly meaningful sex is determined more by personal maturation than physiological reflex. Cellulite and sexual potential are highly correlated. (italics his)
And he shows his sense of humor (not to mention his brutal honesty) when he says:
Quote: I've treated lots of women and men who reach orgasm at only moderate levels of physical arousal, desire, and meaningfulness. They have a characteristic in common: they're married.
As you point out, though, the tricky part is how to get started! I'm with you... I want to finish this book!