Consider getting yourself under 10 year line, and go fast track. Look after your own interests.
If after D you wish to be more generous you can, your choice.
Get your butt in gear and go take action. Oh and cards close chest in any order.
Take it from one who just sneaked under 5 years with a WH who was determined to get over it. 5 years marks the end of a short M in the UK. The time also includes living together periods. In the UK you may already be over 10 years. Info does not hurt, knowledge is power.
You got this.....
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
