WW ended EA 4 mos ago; trying to restore intimacy

[Coconut]

Hmm, I never thought I'd say this, but I agree with doodler... But only because his posts are usually outside the boundaries of reality and usually just meant to be a paradox to life, I.e., meant to make us laugh during a time that we are afraid to do so.

I, like doodler, have detached, and can now see the forest for the trees (or is it the forest through the trees, never was quite sure), but I digress.. What I'm trying to say is stop walking on egg shells, at this point she either wants to make it work or she doesn't. Either call her out on what you saw, or think of what you saw, or tell her you will be joining them for dinner. I don't really see why she wouldn't want you part of her and bff's friendship if you are the one for her.. At the very least, it will stop you from wondering.

There is no reason that I can see her needing to keep your M separate from hanging out with bff unless there is a separate life when hanging out with BFF.