Notsure what to do...

[rexgm]

KML,

I totally agree, her reason for not wanting another kid, which i find understandable considering a divorce is that she didnt want to deal with another baby's daddy. Which tells me she full on divorce and not reconciling.

On another, she called me today saying she hasnt received her CS and needed to pay rent. I transferred the money through my banks zelle acct but she hasnt received it. She didnt setup her acct correctly through her bank and proceeded to tell me she wasnt going to deal with zelle and started yelling at me, so I hung up on her. I sent her a text telling her to call back after she has calmed down.

I received a text saying she was "sorry for yelling, and expected the money by now and it was inconvenient for her and thats why she lost it."

I replied "ty for the apology and I understand its inconvenient for you, which is why I am trying to work with you, but I wont allow you to yell at me."

which she responded with a "got it"

now that i think about it she followed her apology with a reason why she was mad, which really isnt a sincere apology, so I shouldnt of accepted it, but ill work on that in the future.

I am glad i asserted my boundary and she acknowledge it, dont really care if she accepts it, but as long as she acknowledges it i am happy.

another way she is sticking it to me is she recently caused my auto insurance to go up and I cant remove her name from it until we are officially divorced. Dont know how I am going to deal with the rate hike since she got her own insurance but my rate didnt change.