All i can do is move on and if she wants to reconcile then ill think about crossing that bridge when i get to it, but there will have to be alot of work done on her part.
This is a healthy attitude!
Interesting that she got so upset about the idea of your daughter having a sibling - they really do think they can move on while we'll just sit there on the shelf waiting as their Plan B in case it doesn't work out with the affair partner. Good for them to get a little shot of reality so they can understand what they're really choosing.