First time posting outside of the "Newcomer" area.

[EyeTie]

So...It's been a year last September since the divorce hit. My WWW got remarried almost a year to the date of our divorce. I have since moved on, found myself after months of struggling, beat cancer and am more or less happy. My kids are doing great, they are with me a lot, which is good. My current GF and I are doing well and I am learning from past mistakes.

I guess the one question I have is this. For those of you who didn't save your marriage after dealing with a walk-a-way or wayward spouse, do you get treated like the enemy from said ex? My ex will come to my home, hug my girlfriend and then stare daggers at me. She will be the first to point out my faults and the faults of our marriage, but completely gloss over her affairs. We can usually get along long enough for us to have a quick conversation, but anything more escalates quickly, usually with me leaving the situation.

I am really not sure what to do/say, it's almost like she is angry at me because she left. Is this common? Anyone have any advice?