Nope. It is far more likely to make things worse. Drop the MC plans. She doesn't want it, and she will only use it as an excuse to end the M. When WAS's go to MC it's only to check the box next to "all the things I did to try and save the M, but that didn't work." Have you read DR? If not then get it and read it ASAP. REMOVE ALL PRESSURE, that is your goal. MC is pressure. Relationship talk is pressure. Asking her out is pressure. Trying to get her in the bed is pressure. Trying to initiate sex is pressure. Back off and remove the pressure. Read Sandi's rules, these are your guidelines on how to behave:
