I recently talked to my wife and she could not understand why my performance at work was slacking. Which i can see from her point of view because she was already checked out of the marriage. I didnt tell her but i thought, ofcourse she wont understand because she already moved onto a new relationship, unlike myself who just got told from someone they loved for 9+ years that they dont love you anymore, and now you only see your child 50% of the time and your best friend is no longer there to support you. It really hit home how selfish she is being right now, but i didnt let her know how i felt i just agreed with her thoughts and said people have different priorities.
I did make the mistake of telling my daughter that sooner or later she would have a sibling, and this made my wife very mad when my daughter asked her when she would get a brother or sister. I told my wife just because she doesnt plan on having more kids doesnt mean i dont. plus who knows what she wants with the other man its not like she is going to tell me the truth, and im not going to try and figure her out. Nicole, trust me just because they have found someone else doesnt mean they upgraded, trust me more often than not they have downgraded. Trust me my wife's AP is a much older man, with two kids whose wife is taking him to the cleaners. The only one losing out is my daughter, and Im going to try to be the best dad for her, Which is all in my control. as for my wife, the door is left open but I am not going to wait out whether her affair works out or not. All i can do is move on and if she wants to reconcile then ill think about crossing that bridge when i get to it, but there will have to be alot of work done on her part.
as for the daily update. I never got to the gym as planned but did go out a few nights with friends and played some darts. I had a wonderful 4 days with my daughter and we did alot of arts and crafts to pass the time which she really enjoyed.
M:43 W:33 M:10 T:11 D:6 BD 8/12/17 Divorce Final 1/23/2019
