Help needed from Far-east.

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No one respond my thread for a while, so I am spending time to read Squiggy’s. It is very similar to my situation. I wish I could handle my situation like him sooner.

Anyway; I will pick up my D tomorrow and drive back to the house. I will stay there for the weekend to clear my works at the shop. Then I will drive my D to school again on Monday. I will try to stay detached while I’m around my wife on the weekend.

My W will go to Korea for 5 days next week with 5 girlfriends(no OM). Should I take care and watch the shop for her while she’s away? or I should ignore it??? I’m sure she has assigned s.o. already but still no one can do a perfect job than me. I feel like I want to help her get things ready for new year while she’s away but I am not sure that it is a good idea or not in this situation.

“It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!”(Sandi)

Please advice.
Thank you in advance.