After a 9 month deployment she is now WAW

[joejoe1]

I think the situation with car you should move on from. It has happened so let her live with that decision. You can't control her, so don't even try.

We can meet up. I have my boys this weekend W is going out of town on a girls trip.

She does have a lot to lose if the A is exposed.

Next weekend I should be free. I used to make that 2 hour drive all the time. I was stationed in SA from 09-11, then got stationed up there.

Detaching, is you not intiating the conversations. Its not you not having them. If you donhave them, they should be short and to the point. If she is pursuing D, let her do all the work. Dont beg her to stop, dont get in her way. You DB your A$$ off. Give her the best TXS77 she has ever seen.

Also like I mentioned in the earlier post. Dont be in a rush to get back to her text. Don't answer all her phone calls. Start to create a little mystery. I used meetup.com and met all kind of nee people all over SA. It was a great way to GAL. It took my mind off my Sitch as well.

I play basketball at Randolph Brooks in the evening as well. Maybe we could me there.