After a 9 month deployment she is now WAW

[joejoe1]

TXS77,

She is def having an A. She's getting upset and resentful towards you everytime you get in the way of her plans.

It's time to detach. The earlier and faster you can get these techniques down the better chance you have.

Its time to let her go on her own journey and you on yours. She is in a fantasy, its time for you to become the better option and make yourself a person only a fool would leave.

Anytime you get in the way of her fantasy she will blow up or get agitated at you.

Take yourself out of the equation.

Stop calling and texting her. When you go to see your kids. Do just that. Let her know how long you will be there. When your time with your kids are up. Leave the house, don't sit around waiting to have a conversation with her. Only have conversations about your kids.

When she calls you ignore it. If she texts, thats its an emergency don't ignore her. All other situations, take your time with replying.

Give her space. AS has this saying that goes, you want to push her and her OM as close together as possible. Only then will reality start to set in. Her fantasy has to be hit with a dose of reality.

My Wife told me that one day I came home and said, you are pissed and it can't be at me, it must be because of something that happened with the OM. She told me that pissed her off even more because I was right, bit at the time she wasnt going to let me know I was right.

Its time to strap in and hold on tight, because a wild ride follows.