Lost on how to save my marriage! 4

[chris19]

joejoe;

great sitch; congrats on all your progress and your journey and I mean that!

I don't know how, but I never got angry or resentful with my W (I know how, through GODS grace), but I did get fed up. In my heart I also know the night when I gave her two choices, (either she could leave and do what she want with OM or stay and stop what she was doing) and I meant it and she could see it in my eyes and face, it had some impact, I don't know how much but it did. I didn't stop her, I didn't beg her to stop talking to him, I didn't plead, I just wanted her gone. I might fine out later on if it had impact from her and if I do, I will def come back and post it here.

This was from a post a couple pages back; and I was trying to go back and re-read when you were going through this. Do you remember what thread or page you talked about this process? The process of basically tell your WW its me or him?