Ok so the saying is believe nothing that they say and half of what they do. Sandi you even told me to strap on for the ride of my life. Well, today she took me on a helluva ride. She was loosely discussing how she can't afford the mortgage, note on the SUV, etc. on her own. Well, about an hour ago I got a phone call from her while she was at the car dealership. She traded in the Denali XL suv without discussing anything with me. She lost money on the deal "big time" according to her. I have no idea what she bought but I think it'a a Toyota Camry. I wonder how in the hell thats going to haul around 5 kids. I calmly told her my opinion and hung the phone up. She sent me a text about 20 minutes later saying "I'm sorry if I upset you........." I replied she could have swallowed her pride and could have asked me for help (which I offered to her just yesterday when she text me saying she was was still thinking about downgrading) I finished by telling her it's no longer my problem and I got the fact that she wants to make her own decisions and that from here on out she is operating on her own.

I think this is a very clear sign that she is going to file for the big D.

Sandi have you in your time heard of anything so wild?