thank you Sandi, I have always maintained a positive attititude in social functions during this sitch. My wife often gets compliments about how lucky she is to have such an awesome family.
No there is no type of S we are just not having any intimacy and she will not do anything with me alone. She sleeps on the couch.
OK so here goes and this is an area that always bothered me:
MY W's PAYCHECK GOES IN HER ACCOUNT AND SHE USES IT FOR HERSELF AND ON THE KIDS.
Since BD she contributes nothing, except for once in a while she will buy soap or paper towels Etc. I pay for everything (i don't need 2x4's for this).
I also want to add that as I am coming of as not wanting to save my marriage I really do.. I just am not going to let her push me around anymore.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20