I know exactly how you feel. Last week I filed and my W signed yesterday. In a way you kind of feel numb to the whole thing and yet I feel as if I failed. Like Sandi said your W is bound to realize MR. Fireman isn't going to leave his W. I believe my own W has already experienced that rude awakening. Jumped to another OM who got what he wanted kept it moving. So my W is experiencing first hand the level of men in the dating pool. And instead of just admitting to messing up. She is messing with a new OM. The funny part is the OM she chooses are more of a joke than the last. But she calls this living. Only time will get through that stubbornness. And by that time I plan on being single and enjoying the reat of my 30s, while in the beat physical condition of my life. 90 days counting down.