Yep, I know on a rational level that what you're saying is true. But I'm still in the thick of this battle. STBXW is harassing me about why mediation is taking so long, and blaming me and my L for excessive delays. These things do push my buttons, as they affect my ability to see into the future.
I know everyone's sitch is different here but my W isn't a mean nasty person, just doing things to turn my screws. Her lack of care for anything regarding the family has done this to me lately. When she does these things I just grin and bare it, "fake it to make it" right?? My W will be out in a couple weeks, counting down the days! Just keep it up, it is tough, remember your boys and how you want them to view you! Whenever things get tough I think of them, usually helps me through the funk.
