Originally Posted By: Caz49

His texts today are robotic and interpersonal. I do read the guys on here who would do anything to change and are changing...the difference being, my H doesn't feel that need to change for us, but more especially for me.

Caz, he may never feel the need to change for you. But you have a choice. You can accept it and continue as you have, or change, and do what makes you happy without concern for what he thinks.


I've been feeling good for a couple of weeks, and then today I feel low, tired and worn out.

I have been reminded it's not a linear process.... some days you feel great, others, miserable. It would be easier if each day got a little better, but that's not how it works. I have problems with this as well, and I expect most of us on this board do, too.



BTW

I do know people on this board have gotten together in real life. They arranged a date/time and location that was equidistant, and got together.


M:23 T:26
Me:53, Wife: 60
S:18
D:16
filed 7/16
W moved out 4/28/17