Husband gone for second time - new here

[Jim1234]

Be careful about reading things into him "looking at" you, and other things. Yes, it could mean, he's having second thoughts, but it could be that the burrito he had for lunch is giving him momentary indigestion.... I just don't want you to get your hopes up.

As far as him seeing a therapist, bring it up, but don't push it.

Also, I don't believe it's unusual for the children to be clingy, but as soon as you are out of sight, you are out of their minds, and they're fine with the other parent.

That said, if he sees spending time with your daughter as a "job", rather than a special, wonderful time, then he's an a$$, and no amount of counselling is going to fix that.