My idea to separate has been an epic fail

[Caz49]

Nicole,

You've hit the nail on the head...my husband isn't easy at all, even my IC is confused by him. And she says it's little wonder I'm confused, bewildered and put off balance because of him.

He does distract himself with work, but I don't think thats a hardship for him, he loves his job and I almost get the feeling he's now relieved he can devote seven days a week to it.

Yes we've been together a lonnnnng time. I did try the former, Tried to ignore my needs and push on through it but I just reached a point and felt I needed a voice. I literally just wanted to be heard. Besides, I made the break...H doesn't want to put in the work and R...or R without putting in the work. I don't know what H wants because he doesn't communicate with me. I'm at an impasse and thats why I need to let him do him, and I'll improve me.

Thank you for responding...have a good day/evening yourself!