Scars are a sign that you have lived, stretch marks show that too. It shows that you have brought life into this world. He moved on a long time ago, some people take longer to, and again, not everyone can finish first. Not everyone can finish last, like him either.

You wouldn't have what you have if you weren't meant to have them. This is a lasting legacy to your children that you can survive anything, that when the world knocks you over, you will get up and fight.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.